James D. Barber, Jr.

Birth date: Jul 14, 1986 Death date: Mar 27, 2010

James D. "Big J' Barber, Jr. Funeral services for James D. "Big J' Barber, Jr. 23, of White Oak will be held at Ten O'clock AM Thursday April 1, 2010 at the Chapel of Rader Funeral Home 1617 Judson Road with Reverend David Reeder Read Obituary

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Anonymous

790w ago

cant believe its almost been a year...there's not a day that goes by that i dont think of you!....your baby is precious and looks just like you...i miss you dawg!##imported-begin##stephanie##imported-end##

Anonymous

810w ago

Big J was everything you could ask for in a person. When I heard of his passing I could'nt believe that was how it happened because he of all people would be 100 and still so happy, but there's no doubt in my mind that he's bein' taken care of now and doin' it big in heaven! I never knew his girl and didn't know he had a child on the way until I heard the news. My reaction was, he would've been the best father a woman could ask for her baby and how beautiful it is that there's a piece of him on this earth. Everyone that knew J will miss the same things and there's no need for me to repeat them. He is deeply missed ##imported-begin##Brandy Adams##imported-end##

Anonymous

832w ago

man i miss you. i miss all the memories and how you were everyones big brother! you took care of us all, and wouldnt let anone pick on me. lol the shorty.. love and miss ya!!!##imported-begin##april britton##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

I only knew Jay for a very short time but what I did know of him, he was a very thoughtful, kind and loving person. He always had a smile on his face whenever I saw him and always seemed happy. Jessica my prayers are with you and the kids, and I know he loved the kids. He will forever live on through those babies and will always be smiling down on you. May God bless you and see you through this troubld time and always remember HE loves you.##imported-begin##Tracy Turner##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

Big JAY YOU WERE THE BEST FRIEND IVE EVER HAD, I WILL TAKE CARE OF JESS FOR YOU AND UR LIL ONE ON THE WAY, I KNOW U HAVE FOUND PEACE, I LOVE YOU BIG BUBBA, ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!!!!!##imported-begin##Stephanie Diaz##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

Mr and Mrs Barber, I had met James the evening before the wreck. He showed me to the site that eveningProtect Security My heart had a smile all night after meeting him. He was happy, smiling, we joked a bit and several times he mentioned that was his "daddy's oil site" he was a very proud young man of his family.He even mentioned you sitting right by him. his dad He was to relieve me the next morning and had assured me if I had a flat or a dead battery or anything, he had everything there to fix me up in the morning. Your other son relieved me and he seemed just as sweet telling me to go home and get some rest. I was at the wreck site when ya'll got there and was heartbroken for his brother and when you arrived. I heard your husband call the name of Jesus many times and I saw the pair of you standing there and nothing I could do would fix this for you. I felt so powerless and I was, just as you were except for the man your husband called on and that is who will give you the strength when you feel there is none left, to make the next step. My heart goes out to each of you. Your loss is great and the bond you all had just shined. I wish I could do something to help but I am as powerless right now as I was on that day. You are continually in my thoughts and heart and I do wish I had met James again. When I get to Heaven, his smile will be there and I will get to enjoy his ways for all time. Please contact me if there is something I can offer or do for you. I am so sorry for your family and I will never forget. God be with you all##imported-begin##Jan Sullivan##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will be in prayer for you...##imported-begin##Christina##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

Jamie, Patty and family,

My heart goes out to you for your loss. I am sorry that I never had the chance to meet Big J. As someone who has lost a son as well, I know your heart is breaking but I can tell you that the support you receive from your family, friends and especially from Jesus will get you through this even though it doesn't seem so right now. You are in mine and my family's prayers. If you need anything at all, even just to talk, no matter what time, day or night, please call.

Love,
Cindy Smedstad

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Anonymous

833w ago

I am sorry for your loss if there is one thing i knew about james was that if you had no problems with him or his family he had no problems with you he was a good friend of mine threw jr. high and high school there is one thing to be sead he was very loved and liked by alot of people i know this to be fact when i recive phone calls threwout one night by more then one person letting me know that he died that is one garantee that people will miss him greatly if there anything you need let me know.##imported-begin##Bruce Henry##imported-end##

Anonymous

833w ago

Mr & Mrs. Barber,
My mom and us kids lived next to you all on Queens ct for about a year. Your son taught me so much about life and was always there when i needed someone to talk to. He will be missed so much by so many. Your family is in my prayers.##imported-begin##Chelsey Thompson##imported-end##

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