It is always hard to describe feelings, especially when they relate to someone as special as Aunt Thelma. Seeing her all through the years and watching here interact with people from every part of life -- children, babies, her peers, business people, relatives, etc. Everyone would have a "Thelma Story" because she was a person who left a mark on all with whom she had contact.
My special bond which may sound trite is that she was the female version of my father. They were just two years apart in age and such kindred spirits that you could not help but listen when the two started telling stories or relating to some specific issue, problem or situation. Never to be shy about opinions, never to be too bold to not be cognizant of others feelings, always supportive even of "our stupid ideas", that was Aunt Thelma. When I moved my three grandchildren to Henderson in order to get them out of the Dallas area and Dallas schools in particular, she became my extra car-pool driver at age 95, She lived near the High School and was listed as the second to me if they did something wrong, got into trouble, got sick, etc. What a support!
She was the sounding board when you needed one. She was the supporter when you could not find anyone. She was the constant reminder of what we are here on earth to do -- what ever is thrown our way today. Her friendship was beyond what was required in a nephew/aunt relationship. . .she became your peer when you needed one and your guide and director when she felt you needed that guidance or direction.
One of the biggest problems with not having Aunt Thelma around anymore is that it has taken five other people to replace her when she moved from Henderson to Waco. Now what will we do with this latest move?