Ellen, this is Darlene Matthews. I was so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I was not aware of his illness. Before Jay quit practicing, my son Dominic had to have dental work done. Jay did it for him. I was so impressed with him. Besides being a great dentist, he was a wonderful human being, which is rare today. He was always the kindest person when we would go in for an appointment. Of course, my memory of your family goes back to an Israel trip that I hosted, and you and Leah went with me. You and Jay hosted the group after we returned at your lake house. These are such precious memories.
I am giving a memorial to the Asbury House Child Enrichment Center in his honor. While my husband Jerry was at First Methodist, he was connected to Asbury House. I've always had a place in my heart for it.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have experienced what you are going through. God will be faithful.