If you met my dad, you know he was a man of few words. He liked to teach us practical skills-how to bait a fish hook, how to ride a bike, the key to carrying a cup of coffee in saucer across the room without spilling it (hint: don't look down at the cup, look at the person you are taking it to), and how to drive a car are a few of the valuable things I learned from his words.
But what I learned from his character has been even more invaluable. He has taught me the value of perseverance, of loyalty, of service, of not complaining, of loving God and loving others. He taught me that I don't have to call attention to my own achievements and that it is ok to be in the background. He showed me that substance endures over flash.
When I think of my dad, I think about what CS Lewis said about humility, that true humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.
My dad was a truly humble man and that is the greatest compliment I can think to give him.