I can’t find the words to say what a loss this is. Elissa was someone I counted on and trusted for advice, level-headedness, and a good laugh when I needed it. She really saw and understood people and was always a source of strength when her friends and family needed it most. My favorite memory with her is from a day trip we took to Longhorn Cavern together. We laughed and talked and sat listening to her country playlist together all day. Nothing happened in particular—just two old friends wandering around a state park together, being astonished by the beauty of our home state, talking about the past, and wondering about the future. It was a perfect day with a wonderful friend. I am so, so thankful to have known her. I am so thankful that I get to hold these memories of her close, even if losing her has been a nightmare I can’t wake up from. Every minute of grief that is to come while I learn to live in this weird new world will have been worth it, just for the years I knew her and the person she made me.
Have a safe trip, Liss. I love you, and I’ll see you and Brody when I get home.