Clarence, Ellen & Family,
Thank you all for allowing Sonja and I to be a part of your life's journey. Clarence was a very unique man and definately a member of the "Greatest Generation"! It was always a Blessing to interact with your Family each and every time the occasion allowed. We loved and laughed together and enjoyed our time with you this past Christmas although we could see that Clarence was weaker and really not his usual chipper self. We prayed with you while Clarence was confined to the Hospital and rejoiced with you when he was realeased to home care although we knew our time with our friend was to be limited.
Although our hearts are broken for having lost him as we have, our tears rain down upon a smile for having had his company along our way. Clarence was "one of "us"... "one of mine"...and it was good having him alonside us on our journey!
My Brother, whom I loved and have have lost, Cydney W. Adams ( 1949-2005 ) wrote this about our Father whom we lost in 1998, and I share it with you now because it reminds me a great deal of Clarence's work ethic and his endomitable human spirit:
" It can't pass away, something you Love. It's part of you; it clings, like the lingering odor of smoke in your shirt after a day's brush burning.
People you Love are that way, too. They lurk in the shadows around your your eyelids, phantoms of every current opera, their voices not even whispered, but always more than heard; something rather listened for, like noon whistles or the crickets that signal quitting time.
Your are one of those, one of mine; I'll never see sunrise but I'll have your light, never stack my tools but in your shadow. Where I go, you will go. And it's good to have your company."
Tonight, though we have lost you, we hold your memory Dear; and with a boundless love and deep humility we offer our hearts for healing to the perfect Master whose firm grasp and gentle hand continues to guide our destiny. Once again God has demonstrated His precision timing coupled with perfect mercy and healing peace and there can be no more fitting conclusion.
"Death is not extenquishing the light, rather it is putting out the lamp because the dawn has come."
With Love, Respect, Sadness & Joy!
Sam & Sonja Adams