Dear Alene, Carmela, Mike and families,
we lost the oldest best friend of our family: Paul. Our parents Hanni (93) and Guenther (+) met Alene and Paul in the late 50th. They were looking for Alene‘s Grandpa in a little village in Germany. Finally they found him. But of cause this old guy didn’t speak English. So the teacher (Guenther) translated their conversations. That was the beginning of a special friendship between our families. Yes, it started more than 60 years ago.
First, just letters were sent. Every Christmas we got a parcel with gifts for us kids. Later the internet helped to communicate.
Paul and Alene came many many times to Germany and meeting the Krefts was always on the schedule. Paul loved Germany. The country, the people, the way of living and the food. We ate so many „Schnitzel“ together.
Years ago they celebrated the 50th wedding anniversary of our parents with us, and we sang a song together. Unforgettable was also the last meeting between Paul and Guenthi on Guenthies 90th birthday. Paul held a speech and we all knew that it was the last time these two old friends would see each other. Paul hold the speech in english and no translation was necessary. Tears over tears.
Our visits in Texas were amazing. Paul showed us so many things and let us take part in their way of living. Once we sent our kids by themselves over the big ocean to spent weeks with Alene and Paul. We never had any doubt that Alene and Paul would take care of them being so far away from home for the first time. Our kids loved them of course. They called them American Grandpa and Grandma.
Being with Paul and Alene meant having a good time. Hours for hours we played hand & foot or just talked and talked. Sitting on the porch with a coffee and a tea. He had a wonderful sense of humor, and we made so many jokes. His smile and laughter was special and we were always amazed by his kindness, he was so giving. The way he talked with the kids…….there are so many memories we could continue to share. He is absolutely unforgettable and will have a place in our hearts forever.
I can still hear him saying „Guten Morgen, mein Herr“ when he was entering the kitchen in our house in the morning.
Now we have to realize that Paul is no longer with us. There is a big loss. We believe that he is now in a place with Guenther and these guys will have good talks and fun up there. No more pain and fear.
Alene and Paul: thank you for being our friends! Let us continue the tradition that Paul had started: our house will always be open for the Davis families.
Love from Joachim („Joe“), Elisabeth, Julia, Susanne and Stefan and….little PAULA